I’m Gay, Got a Problem With That?

[1] I don’t know how to play basketball. I fact, I don’t even watch basketball. I just like looking at the players. (Gay!)
[2] I looove volleyball and was the class MVP in grade 7. (Gay!)
[3] I like only a couple of Mariah, all Madonna, no Regine, no Lani, a little of Cher. (An uber-Madonna fan!)
[4] I can’t cook to save myself. (Not gay!)
[5] I am a fan of musicals (some bore me), but a bigger fan of the theatre. (Gay!)
[6] My vanity is not manifested on neatness or my looks. (Not gay!)
[7] My hair is short, so it takes less than 5 minutes to fix it. (Not gay!)
[8] When I was still in the closet, I pretended to enjoy talking about sexuality so as to make me look cool and not halata. (Gay! But an excellent actor!)
[9] Yes! I was crazy in love with my mestizo best friend. When I told him, that ended our friendship for good. Sigh. (Gay!)
[10] I don’t really relish shopping. I go straight to what I need to buy and that’s it.

I’m curious, AJ. How come (sings) “your mornings were alive / with the sound of musicals!” (stops singing) when you were growing up?

Okay, let me answer too… hehe..

(1) I don’t know how to play basketball but I was forced by the circumstances to play once in my life — imagine how bad that play had been. Oh, and I love a few good-looking players from Ateneo, haha. (Gay!)
(2) I don’t play volleyball. I can’t even manage to bring the ball over the net! (Not Gay!)
(3) I used to like only two songs of Mariah and Regine, but I don’t really like them. (Can be straight?)
(4) I love cooking pasta and I would love to try baking (Gay)
(5) I love theater and musicals! (Gay)
(6) I’m a little vain, although lately na lang nag-start, hehe. (Debatable)
(7) It takes me around 5 minutes to fix my short hair. (Not Gay)
(8) I’m uncomfortable when the topic is sexuality. (Gay)
(9) I was in love with my closest friend–gwapo ito–way back in college, but when he found out I’m gay, he became distant. (Gay)
(10) I hate shopping! (Not Gay)

So there… hehe… By the way, AJ, ayos yung PLUS ah… Hindi nga masyado halata.

hell, i used to think gay men are smart, (could be street-smart or booksmart but gay men were one-way or another smart) but after reading a few g4m profiles and actually talking to the bunch of young gay men..ugh! you’d wonder if you’re the only brunette at the table.

I’ll bring this list around!

dami namang kwistyon. tanunging mo na lang kung gusto nila sa tumbong. joke.
wb AJ.

1) I played basketball for my PE class. Never liked it (although I shot a freethrow).
2) I don’t play volleyball, at all.
3) I like Kylie Minogue, also considered as a gay icon.
4) I cook. It’s a family skill.
5) Not a big fan of musicals, but I like watching theater.
6) I’m not that vain.
7) I usually let my hair as it is, but when I apply hair products it usually takes quite a while. I am quick to answer that I’m gay, even at times when I “act straight.”
9) Although I was close with some good-looking guys, my (late) best friend is a trangender female.
10) I shop for essentials, clothing not much.

Magulo ang score ko…basta maganda pa rin ketch.

I always see that Ernie on most of your pics lately. It’s getting a liiiittttlllleee creepy now dude! Who does it represent? A special somebody gave it to you I bet! LOL

1. I used to, when I was a kid. Now, not anymore.
2. Nope.
3. I admit. I’m a Mariah fan. O sige, stone me to death na. Just don’t hit my face.
4. No, not really
5. Not really too.
6. Hmm, hindi rin masyado, unless there’s a reason to be vain.
7. No
8. Medyo
9. Well, hmm. I have good looking guy friends but none of them are my best friends. So I say no.
10. Yes.

1. I don’t know how to play basketball. I don’t like to watch the game. I don’t even understand why people spend time watching it. I really think it’s a total waste of time. (Gay!)
2. I like volleyball. I’m not really good at it, but it is one sport I would want to play. (Gay!)
3. I like to listen to Lani & Madonna. (Gay!)
4. I don’t know how to cook. (Not Gay!)
5. I don’t like musicals. BORING! (Not Gay!)
6. I am vain. (Gay!)
7. I’m semi-kalbo. (Not Gay?)
8. I’m not uncomfortable when the topic is sexuality. (Not Gay!)
9. I was caught hugging my ‘bestfriend/boyfriend” by our friends. Kasi nakatulog kami pareho sa kalasingan, we ended up hugging each other while sleeping, and everyone else was looking at us pala..Hahaha (That was soooo gay!)
10. I don’t spend much time shopping for clothes, Books? YES! (Gay? NO! Geek? YES!)

Five(5) out of ten(10)! I am fucking sooo gay! LOL

1. Only played basketball as a requirement in PE.
2. Loved playing volleyball (when I was a kid – now it’s badminton, which is noveau gay sport and muay thai) c”,)
3. Don’t like Mariah (ughhh, her style is so trashy) – like Lani, Madonna, Barbra, Bette, Cyndi.
4. I can’t cook gourmet but I make a mean adobo and leche flan to-die-for.. c”,)
5. I only discovered musicals recently (thanks to a friend).
6. Vain to a point (I think a person should age like a great wine).
7. Done semi-kalbo-generally I wear my hair short to save on styling..c”,)
8. I’m comfortable with sex, sexuality, and sexually explicit conversations(with the right people, of course)
9. My best friend is good looking… *
10. I like shopping-not window shopping…
11. I have a partner of 3 years (my best friend*) – perhaps this is my most obvious trait as a gay man..

1. Not gay. I play basketball. I’m da only one in our gaykadas who watches NCAA
2. Not gay. I don’t like volleyball at all.
3. Kinda gay (1.5/5) Don’t like Mariah. Like Madonna. I don’t even know Regine. Who’s Lani? Love Cher..
4. Not gay. I swear you are soooo gonna drag me to court if I cook.
5. Very gay. Love broadway.
6. Not gay. Not vain but neat.
7. Not gay. A splash of wooottah in ma hair is good enough.
8. Not gay. I can talk and be comfortable with just about anything.
9. Gay? My best friend in Manila was half-German half Filipino and the only blue-eyed blond hair Ilocano speaking in college
10. Not gay. Not very much into shopping. I know what and where to buy, pay for it and leave.

What am I? Confused? I guess. Right?

All I know is that, thanks for listing me in that column on the other page! he he he!
Basta, when I see you, I will prove to you that I am gay. Will you issue certificate if i pass? I need something to hang on my wall other than dildos. Doesn’t look very xmastree you know. I gotta get rid of them.

Nice post!

Off-topic: So when is the next podcast coming out? I wanna hear it na.

1. I play basketball
2. I dont play volleyball.
3. I hate divas
4. I love cooking
5. I’m semi on musicals. I go out of my way to watch those that are reviewed well.
6. not vain at all.
7. I do use my mom’s blower sometimes. I hate gel.
8. I dont really skip the question (whether i’m gay or not)
9. I dont have any hot ‘best friends’
10. I hate shopping.

Well, i dont think I’m gay then.

OMG! STILL NO UPDATE? I THINK OUR FRIEND HERE IS IN LOVE….O’RIGHT AJ, TAKE YOUR TIME.

SO WHO’S THE LUCKY ONE THAT REPRESENTS ERNIE?

@McVie

sa panahon ngayon, mas gusto ko na rin panoorin yung mga players. pero ayoko ng pawisan. gusto ko pinapanood sila sa locker room!

ahhh my mornings were alive with the sound of broadway kase my older brother used to play them all the time at home.

@ian

Okay nga yung PLUS. my ex and I came up with that term (as I’m sure other people did as well) para hindi kami halatang bading in public. We had our own terms for effem, straight, caucasian, foreigners, etc).

@Powerbottom

i think the guys on g4m are blondes! Blondes have more fun indeed, but brunettes remember it the next day! hehehe

@Aileen

hehehe. wag mo sabihing sa akin mo nakuha yung list ha! hahaha. Eh puro stereotyping pa naman yung mga questions ko! hahaha

@james

heheh, i wish i could do that. kaso lang i’m shy eh *giggles*

@empress maruja

kahit anupaman ang score mo, ang mahalaga eh maganda ka pa rin! yun lang yon! hehehehe

@River

ernie is actually my travel buddy/boyfriend/secret lover! lol. i got him from a store in a mall a couple of years back.i started a travle blog for him a couple of years back but got too lazy updating it: http://andreiiandernie.blogspot.com

@Misterhubs
i won’t stone you to death naman for loving mariah! hehehe. i have friends who are mariah fans too. i hated her even more when i saw my wenty in one of her videos! lecheng hitad na yan! hehehe.

Hmmm goodlooking guy friends… baka pwede naman makishare diyan…

@oboids

five out of ten talaga! hahaha. good job naman sayo!

@Homie

hmmm how mean is the adobo? and hmmm pwede bang makatikim ng to-die-for na leche flan? hehehee

@Reyna Elena

So confused ka? Hindi ka bading? hehehe. Mukhang masyadong madami na ang iyong mga dildo. ipamahagi mo na lang yung hindi pa gamit sa mga mahihirap tulad ko. )

@Misterhubs

next podcast? malapit na… pinapahupa ko lang ang aking ubo’t sipon, chakabelles naman kase kung singhot ako ng singhot habang nagpopodcast! heheh

OK. AJ. Gimme your snail mail address at i will send you a balikbayan box full of colorful all size fits all dildos. He He He!

I really like you, I’m buying you a house.
http://house-lot-laguna-cavite.blogspot.com/2007/04/nidana-elite-model-house.html

@Reyna elena

Ang gandang bahay naman niyan! I don’t deserve it! Charing! hehehe… kala ko yung bahay ang ipapadala mo through snail mail! hehehe. pwede ba i-resell ang mga dildos?

Hey there,

My question is with regards to bisexuality. I’ve always felt different and I knew I was attracted to guys(more physical), but I also felt attracted to girls(more emotional). Does this make me bisexual, or am I still on my quest in becoming a full pledge homosexual?