As I was looking for an old entry on my personal blog, I came across this other entry which made laugh so hard. I think some of us can learn from this conversation. To sum it all up, I always attract and get attracted to men who have issues - psycho hot men!
Enjoy!
So this hot guy suddenly sends me a message on my YM. Then shows off his hot bod on cam. then started a conversation. And asked some weird questions.
My question now is: Why do I get men who seem so great (not to mention superhot!) yet always come with a lot of issues (read: psychos)? For his security (estrus lang!), we will call him G4MGuy
here are a few of his psycho-symptoms types of statements:
* if ur my bf u’ll do anything ryt?
* gang rape?
* yeah u’ll get raped by my friends one by one
* but u’ll do anythin 4 luv ryt?
* thats not being naive, thats just submission…
* if i lost a bet with a friend and i had no way to pay him back and he asked me for ur body for a night would you do it for love of me?
So without further ado, here’s the convo:
G4MGuy: hey
AJ: hey
G4MGuy: wer u?
AJ: makati u?
AJ: who’s this?
G4MGuy: same
AJ: oh ********* from guys4men?>
G4MGuy: yep
AJ: hey how are your doing?
AJ: do you remember me?
AJ: how are *you doing
G4MGuy: am gud
G4MGuy: u want my body?
AJ: yeah
AJ: damn right hot
G4MGuy: ok
G4MGuy: i’ve always liked u
AJ: really?
AJ: thanks
G4MGuy: ur cute, wat u into?
AJ: we havent met yet
G4MGuy: saw ur pic.
AJ: what am i into… thats a difficult question to answer
G4MGuy: ur a bottom ryt?
AJ: but yeah… ive always found you to be so hot
AJ: im versatop
AJ: bottom by request
G4MGuy: gang rape?
AJ: gang rape?
AJ: hahah
G4MGuy: yup
AJ: hell no
G4MGuy: y?
AJ: i only bottom for men i like
AJ: and boyfriends
G4MGuy: thats y its rape
AJ: im not a big fan of simultaneous sexual activity with numerous people
AJ: id like to keep sex one-on-one
G4MGuy: if ur my bf u’ll do anything ryt?
AJ: for you
AJ: but not for anybody else
G4MGuy: yeah u’ll get raped by my friends one by one
AJ: thats not part of anything
G4MGuy: huh?
AJ: when it comes to “love” i may be naive but i dont allow myself to get stupid
G4MGuy: thats not being naive, thats just submission…
AJ: i’m not into allowing myself to be objectified
G4MGuy: but u’ll do anythin 4 luv ryt?
AJ: and im just so sick and tired of random fleeting sexual encounters
AJ: i wont
AJ: i’m not a martyr
G4MGuy: u wont?
AJ: i dont wanna be joan of arc
AJ: she was a martyr
AJ: she was killed
G4MGuy: unless ur really in love
AJ: love is not about making the other person give everything up
AJ: love is not about asking for things
G4MGuy: am not asking u toi give everything up…
AJ: its not that
AJ: it’s just that i have my own sense of self
AJ: and self-respect
G4MGuy: can i ask a hypothetical question?
AJ: sure
AJ: what was your question?
G4MGuy: if i lost a bet with a friend and i had no way to pay him back and he asked me for ur body for a night owuld you do it for love of me?
AJ: and let’s say we were together and i was really in love with you?
AJ: hypothetically?
G4MGuy: yeah
AJ: i wouldnt
G4MGuy: oh…
G4MGuy: so to pay him back he would request me to give myself to his partner for a night, would u agree?
AJ: i would throw the question back at you… do you love me enough to allow yourself to get yourself involved in a betting game knowing that I WOULD BE the payoff
G4MGuy: its no emotion involved, as long as you dont give them ur heart. as ur doin it
AJ: it’s the same banana
G4MGuy: so u’ll allow me to bed his friend?
AJ: i will ask you the same question.
AJ: if you love me enough, why, in the first place, did you USE ME - THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE - as a bet
G4MGuy: anyway, gtg late for the gym at ff. catch u later my hottie
G4MGuy: only as payment for a debt
AJ: if you really love someone, you will not allow yourself to get involved in that kind of situation
G4MGuy: maybe not…
AJ: and even if it was only a payment for a debt, it is not good enough
AJ: if you love the other person enough, then you won’t allow him or her to get hurt
G4MGuy: hmm…. good i thought u’d make me a prize for a bet
AJ: if i lost a bet and they wanted your body,
G4MGuy: hmmm.. ur interesting…
G4MGuy: if it would get u out of a fix i would allow u to give them my body..
AJ: i would do everything i can in my power to pay them
AJ: but i wont give up my body or your body
G4MGuy: really? wow,,,
G4MGuy: nice
AJ: still, i wouldnt do that
G4MGuy: anyway, am late gtg
G4MGuy: bye
Sigh! A few minutes after a friend asked me how my search for Mr. Right was going (I told him I stopped searching), this guy just made me realize that stopping the search was a good idea. It seems like if I go on searching for Mr. Right, I only end up with Psychos.
Hot, but Psycho.
