In this episode, baklang AJ gathers some of his friends from work to share their insights on why AJ is having difficulty finding a boyfriend.
Pabaklaan na lang oh! He can’t get any gayer than this!
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In this episode, baklang AJ gathers some of his friends from work to share their insights on why AJ is having difficulty finding a boyfriend.
1 | Misterhubs
This was such a fun podcast! Will has a sexy voice. Hehe. It’s ok to be choosy while you’re still young. But be open to new experiences as well. 
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2 | AJ
@Misterhubs
Thanks. I will tell Will, that is, if he hasn’t read the comments yet. Will, incidentally, is the owner of http://myjournal.ph. Siya ang may-ari nitong libreng space ko sa internet! hehehe. Yung AL pala is straight din. hahaha.
I’m most definitely WIDE OPEN to new experiences now! haha
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4 | ian
hi AJ, ang ganda nga ng boses ni will. hehe… straight ba sya? hay, you know what, i tend to fall for straight guys. hehehe… hi will. can we go out? (hehe, hi AJ… nice podcast…, nakalimutan ko, i was supposed to comment on your podcast, hehe. it’s good you got the insights of your friends.)
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5 | empress maruja
Katuwa naman itey. Ang masesay ko lang ay darating at darating din ang lalake. At kapag dumating ang nararapat huwag nang pakawalan.
Dedma na Mare sa mga quality chuva. Ika nga ng isang bakla sa may amin, “Walang pangit sa titing galit.” CHAROTEE!
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7 | AJ
@Nicky
hahahahah! It is not ME! It’s the people I date! Charoooot!
@Ian
maganda talaga boses ni will. at yes, straight siya. He’s married and his kid Joaquin is soooooo cute! And his wife’s name is grace. so they’re Will and Grace!
@Maruja
Hindi naman nabura itey. kailangan lang ng refresh. Hmmm. Walang pangit sa titing galit? Pwes, ibahin ako! Kebs na sa titing galit, kung pangit, deadma na! hehehe. Charinggerzie!
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8 | arlo0611
such a fun broadcast…
but since u asked to comment… imho lang ha… (careerin ba?) as broadcasts go, the basic premise, i felt, was too self-indulgent which i guess u are entitled to dahil podcast mo siya noh.
but maybe instead of focusing on “why aj can’t find a boyfriend” “(na tuwing inuulit ay nae-alienate ako dahil ikaw lang naman pala may problema eh at nakikieavesdrop lang kami sa usapan niyo) it could be phrased “why people LIKE aj can’t find a boyfriend” (baka makaidentify ako with you kasi ako rin i cant find boyfriend and dahil broadcast ito mafeel ko na kasali ako sa discussion maski di ako umiispluk)… be that as it may, when the sidecomments started flying nakakaengross naman…sensya na
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10 | Paulo
That was a really entertaining podcast — kept me awake at work.
I think there’s a huge difference between picky/choosy and having your “preferences”. Unless those “preferences” have morphed into “standards”, then that’s a totally different case! — your barkada knows more than I do! LOL!
For me, I’m at a time where I’m just sitting around in “Single Land” waiting for something… just no more energy to look anymore… that, or I’m just lazy…
…or waiting for Nate Berkus…
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14 | gayngame
I think there’s no problem in setting standards in looking for a guy. But sometimes, these standards you set will be overcome by your feelings with a guy. At yan ang true love. Na kahit wala ung mga qualities na hinahanap mo ay mahal mo pa rin sya.
But when you find the right guy for you, nurture the love you have. Stop looking for that ideal guy.
Because for me, Looking for an ideal guy is a non-stop process. You might meet a good person today. Magiging kayo. Pero bukas maaaring may mameet ka pang mas higit sa kanya. At kinabukasan ay may makikilala ka pang mas higit pa dun sa last. and…..so….so….so. to the infinity.
Feel your heart, tsong.
(Hahaha. Do I make sense?)
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15 | Satoshi
Looking for an ideal guy is easy…the one that your’e with at the moment is the ideal guy for you…but the real deal boils down if your ready…and if youre ready…do you have what it takes to make it last?
Standards are juvenile…You can never have all the qualities in one guy…but maturity would definitely paved the way for the man of your dreams to come and take you in his arms…for keeps.
Listen to your Heart and never Ignore your gut feeling.I know that magic is way back your childhood years but something will tell you if the guy your currently with will be your co-author in your fairytale…and when that time comes..you know that you’re happy ending is very inevitable…and happiness will never end…finally
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17 | AJ
@Ishy
Choosy tayong lahat! Charot! hahahah. So kung ako BAMR, ikaw CAMR!
@Satoshi
true true! that’s what I need, to listen to my heart and take charge when my gut feel tells me so. problem is I get scared. I wish I can start writing my own fairytale soon. The co-author is still MIA.
@gayngame
true! that happens to me a lot. i always end up dating a guy who doesn’t have any of the qualities that I’m looking for. or worse, he is the complete opposite of what I’m looking for. Love nga naman! Hahaha
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18 | paralux
looks are usually deceiving. sometimes, those who are blessed with dashing looks doesnt have the attitude or worse, those who have attitude doesnt have much to brag about their looks. You are lucky to have both or have a lover who has those. Sometimes, you find a guy and ends up on one night stands but eventually realizing that the fun is indeed just for a night. In this world with lots of queers all around you, cute dashing yummy hunky queers actually, if you think you aren’t as cute as they are, you reinvent yourself. Stand out and dont be an ugly duckling. It’s a common fact that image isnt everything but if you have a little of it plus the down-to-earth attitude, who cant fall in love to you? 
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